old gay guys

Older gay guys love to wink at me, is this an antiquated signal for sex from back in the day when white, powerful, christian men kept gay people down and or killed them off?

Every time they make serious eye contact with me it happens, as if a wink is all it takes.

It's interesting how it used to be a "secret society" and now we have our own channel on cable tv. I wonder if closet queer people from yesteryear ever thought we as a community would cum so far (pardon the pun).

So how do I flag scat bottom again?