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Showing posts with label safe sex. Show all posts
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5/22/08

safe sex

2/11/08

The (R)Evolution of the Bath House (a.k.a. 1 night in Folsom Prison)

Members of my generation have all heard stories of the swinging 60s
and 70s, pre-AIDS, a virtual sexual wonderland where you could have it
all and actually get away with it. Nothing was off limits, nothing
sacred, secret, or taboo. Free love (sex), orgies, and Gay Liberation
all marked the beginning of the sexual and queer revolution; every gay
guy has heard the myth of the bath house, but how many have actually
experienced this?

I know living in San Francisco is living in a bubble- where else can a
man go outside AS WELL AS go through his entire day wearing a dress,
and not have to be completely concerned with defending himself from
attack? I guess that's why I love living in San Francisco, there's a
plethora of drugs of every type ( I don't do drugs) and the sex
industry is alive and booming (I'm not a sex worker).

Everyone calls San Francisco "The Human City" and over time, I've come
to experience this to be true. San Francisco is unapologetically
actual- bringing the whole world to terms with reality and leading
everyone into the next century and the age of human ideas. I have
always felt safe here, maybe that's what makes me stay (it's obviously
not the weather).

I'm digressing. As I have gotten older, over time and through the
eventual diffusion of knowledge, I've realized that the bath house
lifestyle of yesteryear is still alive and well? I mean to say perhaps
that the scene is still around, but not as out in the open as it ought
to be! I've stumbled upon several men only sex clubs, they're all
clandestine, small urban bungalows dispersed among a community who
attends, subsequently supporting the small industry created around the
sex clubs. Blame San Francisco, and its willingness to embrace sex of
any kind.

I'm glad that these people are here, I would go to any end to defend
people's right to fuck in sex clubs (even though I choose to not go
there myself). In fact, I think people should be fucking out on the
streets and in the open all the for the whole world to see. Everyone
is frigid, there will never be anything wrong or dirty about sex,
inhibition is the result of evil entities such as christianity and
their epic battle against reality. Everyone is at heart, both a voyeur
and an exhibitionist at the same time- it's called being human, it's
stupid to try and pretend otherwise.

I mean, isn't it a fact that comprehensive sexuality education is
STILL left out of public schools, creating SO many problems for the
younger generation, such as homophobia, sexual dysfunctions, stds,
stis, rape, sexual abuse, and teen pregnancy?

I'd like to take a second to remind people that safe sex is still so
important. Everyone has HPV at this point (myself included), and it
really sucks! The government purposefully kept Guardasil out of the
reach in the united states, so again, blame bush for the problems that
our generation inherits. Sex can still kill people, there is no cure
for AIDS, even though it could be quickly and efficiently cured using
stem cells (they would basically grow the infected person a new immune
system over night) but the government wants gay people to die- the
reality of the situation.

As a result, I'm very interested in sex especially from a
socio-anthropological perspective, because queer stories haven't been
written, and they really need to be told- open, honest, and upfront.
The responsibility falls on me to document/archive this information,
so it never gets lost. Maybe someday I'll get thanked, but I'm not
holding my breath. I'm probably so fascinated by sex because it was so
foreign to me for so long (because I didn't receive the comprehensive
sexuality education that I should have) also, studying sexuality from
a biological perspective only serves to solidify its importance (to
the cycle of life). As for me, I plan on living forever and breaking
the cycle of life, but again I'm digressing.

There's a small sex club by the End Up, if you walk through the SOMA
at night, there's a huge chance that you'll run into something after a
while, just look for a small out of the way door through which one can
see nothing. The first time I went into Mack Folsom Prison
(www.mackfolsomprison.com) on 9th/Folsom I was amazed to see how small
it was! I was hoping for a huge auditorium full of hundreds of hot
naked men all fucking or ready to fuck, with porn, sex toys, and
sexcessories (sex accessories) all over the place. It's weird the way
that places and setting never look the way one would expect.

Inside, there were monitors everywhere with porn all over them (not
the kind of porn I would invest in because porn is so god damned
expensive, but still). There were random set ups for role playing such
as glory holes, slings, dungeons, and other fun stuff. They had a
corner with showers mimicking a gym scene; inevitably what is most
appealing the fact that you can see whatever you want, starring
whoever you want (however, it's regulated to the people who actually
want to fuck there) so basically freaks of all shapes and sizes can
live out all their fantasies in a safe, secure setting, and this
setting should be there to help people. Thank you sex clubs, for
everything that you do for us.

I would like to talk for a minute about the scat tub, and also confirm
that there are some things that even I won't do. The first time I saw
shit porn I was in high school-it doesn't get me off, but I am
fascinated by it to no end. Back then and even now I've basically seen
everything that is even possible to do played out on camera (I often
want to know more personal information about the people who are
willing to do some things, but again, I digress). Almost anything
taboo is fascinating to me, especially when it comes to sexual
paraphilias (sexual arousal or orgasm dependent upon a sexual practice
that is outside of social norms) I can't get enough! So, Mack Folsom
Prison has a scat tub, and people get in it and get shit on, and get
off on it. I guess they get off on on that shit! lol. Too bad words
can't be expressive like words are, no tonation = less expression. I
mean, it was just one tub, but it was still there.

Opps, I don't know why I ended talking about shit when I really wanted
to talk about hot gay sex. I'm delighted that SF is just one of so
many metropolitan cities (of the interior), all of whom have a
beautiful historical and contemporary queer culture (and impact) on
the world and peoples' lives.

2/9/08

tweaker.org

Booty Bumping

How it’s done:
The speed is dissolved in water, then a syringe or too without a needle is used to “bump” this liquid solution of crystal into your ass. The drug is absorbed by the blood vessels in the lining of the rectum.

Time to get off:
3-5 minutes.

Things to watch out for:
If you bottom after booty bump, you will have something else in your rectum besides your absorbent blood vessels and his big dick. You will also have a somewhat abrasive powder which can increase chances for internal abrasion and condom breakage. If there is not a condom on that dick, you will increase the risk for abrasions both in your rectum and on his dick and increase the chance for exchange of blood. Possible damage to the mucous membranes, burning or tearing of the tissue of the rectum which will put you at high risk of transmitting HIV and other STDs.

Strategies to reduce possible harms:
If you booty-bump and bottom make sure he has a condom on. Make sure you use clean water to dissolve the speed. Don’t share booty bump syringes – you could be sharing shit which could give you hepatitis, parasites or any number of diseases.

1/20/08

hot sex

friday night, chillin on the curb, beer in hand
a hot wigga walks by, my attention he commands
hey boi wanna chill? but we both understand
we're about to fuck, totally not planned!
thank fucking god, it's time I got me a man
$ucking your dick takes me to the holy land
I love to give head, thank Buddha I tanned
my ass is tight as a ten year olds, damn!
you have a big dick, now I can't seem to stand
now I'm on his bed, my dick is so hard
his throat and my jizz, sputs now bombard
"let me feel you, let down your guard"
now I'm kissing his neck and he's seeing stars
I reach around, my hand on his nard
What's your fantasy? he replied a security guard
so funny, too real I'll just disregard
tell me what you want, you like it rough?
I bet a ho like yourself has got to be tough
hold up roll on your rubber Mr. Leboeuf!
pull out your 20s motherfucker sho nuff
this ho ain't free and your beard's too gruff
here's one for the records, but far off the cuff-
In case you wonder I look good in the buff
who gives a shit if his brain is full of fluff?
to me he means nothing. so sure enough
so many boys, so little time is my stuff

1/12/08

rehab

Celebrity Rehab on VH1 is amazing! The porno girl is already my favorite, she's already such a mess it's amazing. Dr. Drew is just so great, I've been a huge fan of his for many years. It's really inspiring to see someone content to become famous as a Doctor, instead of for some other reason. I can't believe that they got Chyna Doll back for another reality TV series. I also love Brigitte Nielson from Surreal Life and Strange Love.

Dinaz and I couldn't fucking believe that one guy they had on that show. It was basically a body being wheeled around, hallucinating, and about to die on cable TV- serving no purpose aside from being a good laugh for me and Dinaz. Dinaz and I speculated that perhaps, that person was never even famous, and had been planted as a reality TV surprise to scare the porno girl and Chyna Doll out of getting fucked up. Dinaz thinks everyone on that show is a joke.

I first started listening to Loveline a long time ago, it was always an amazing resource for sexual education. I remember the show on Mtv to be equally as fascinating, I was always a big fan of it. I get sad when I think that for a lot of kids, that was their only outlet for sexual education throughout their young adult lives. Well, that and looking at porn on the internet.

I"m glad that Dr. Drew got a new forum to bring his "addiction medical specialist" skills to work. He's going to be educating millions to the actuality of drugs and humans relationship with them.

Dr. Drew is all about sex and drugs! Loves it.



One time I saw a picture of Chyna Doll's clit on the internet, it was a screen capture from her sex video. This clit was fucking out of this world, it was so enlarged that perhaps Chyna Doll could fuck a chick with her clit. Chyna Doll is so ridiculous, I speculate that her clit has turned into the beginning stages of a tranny phallus from steroids? What's your hypothesis?

OK, maybe I'm exaggerating. I guess her clit could get some guys off? I never saw her sextape, why would I want to see it anyways? One Night In Chyna is nothing like One Night In Paris. Paris's movie was glamorous, fun, and everything it needed to be.

I love that even Chyna Doll has "leaked" a sex tape. I think "actors and actresses" won't be able to "becum famous" unless they're also porno starts. Dinaz and I watched Kim Kartrashian's "mom" sell her out to playboy yesterday on reality TV. What is this world cumming to? Cause I need some of that. jklol

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1/9/08

ideas

class jumping

middle class

low class childhood

1416 Alma Ave

human instincts and responses from the past that reassert themselves and where do they come from?

-not wanting to be dropped as an infant
-behaviorism
-power differentials in sex
-"protection"

christianity and it's social exclusion of sexuality leading to everyone being sexually unhealthy
-cite Auleb's class
-scan chart of health vs. non-health
-comprehensive sexuality education
-Tyra show about racism, roles, religion, etc amongst kids

1/4/08

it's not every day...

that one gets to go in a sex club and see the scat tub! I'm not talking shit (pardon the pun), thank buddha for these spaces and people who attend. They're taking sexploration to the next level.

In my opinion, people don't have any safe arenas for safe and consensual sexploration. Far gone are the day of bath houses, raveged by HIV. Gone are the Cockettes, the preachers of free love. It's San Francisco, and here anything goes. Into any scene. J/O SGWM 23, into PNP, B&D, BB, and water sports. Just kidding! So, what gets you off?

Through living in the SOMA, I'm starting to see that sex really is San Francisco's life blood (in the words of Dee Dee Russell). At this point, I think of San Francisco as Amsterdam Version 2.0. You can get whatever you want here- for a price, and chances are it will be cheaper than you originally thought!

At one point I was jaded, but now again I'm filled with hope for the future. I realize that the bathhouse, once imagined in my head to be long dead, is alive and kicking, just inconveniently out of view. To be quite honest, I started to find them purely by chance. Walking the streets always helps me clear my head and find balance, it makes me feel good to be an observer.

I'm starting to observe the omnipresent yet clandestine sex clubs in all their glory. There all over the place. Usually disguised as a simple door leading "nowhere" all one has to do is venture a few feet in to be instantly transported deep underground. Green lights, tiny signs, hallways going nowhere, black doors. Chances are, it's a sex club, and it has to be making money if it's there, which means people have to be going consistently to keep it alive and running.

Where are these people, I ask myself. Is it the same people over and over? It's it a "one time thing" for the majority? And what's foremost on my mind,

When can this scat queen take a bath in the scat tub??

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